Relationship Mirror
Understand what your relationship has been trying to tell you.
You each answer on your own phone, privately. Then Relationship Mirror explains the dynamics the two of you have built together — never who said what.
Nothing to download, nothing to install — everything here works in your browser, on any phone or computer.
The difference
It explains. It never reveals.
In a couple, "one partner feels unheard" tells you instantly which one. That creates defensiveness, not understanding. So Relationship Mirror never reports answers at all — it explains the mechanism underneath them, to both of you at once.
What it will never say
One partner feels unheard.
Your partner said they want more affection.
One of you is more committed than the other.
No quoting. No summarising. No "one of you". Not by name, not by hint.
What it says instead
You appear to have developed different ways of expressing care. One style communicates through practical action, the other experiences connection mainly through conversation. Neither is wrong — but the mismatch can make love feel missing even when both people care deeply.
You seem to be solving the same problem from different assumptions. Before changing behaviour, it may help to understand why each of you reads the situation differently.
Guidance, never a verdict. No scoring, no blame, no winner.
How it works
Separately answered. Understood together.
Each of you answers alone
Two logins, two phones, the same questions. Neither of you sees the other's answers — not during, not after.
It learns the system, not the scoreboard
It reads both sides as one picture: the recurring themes, the values in play, the places where you interpret the same moment differently.
You ask it anything
Sit together and ask. It answers as a guide would — explaining why the pattern exists and what usually helps — never who said what.
Conversation starters
Most couples ask the same thing first: where do we even begin?
Relationship Mirror begins with hundreds of Conversation Starters covering communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, goals, parenting, family, money and a great deal more. A few examples:
Why do we keep having the same argument?
What makes each of us feel truly heard?
What would make our relationship stronger this year?
What are we protecting when we argue?
Why do we sometimes feel unloved even when love is present?
Hundreds more are waiting inside Relationship Mirror.
Choose your depth
One payment, for both of you.
Relationship Mirror Light
$19.99one-time
- 200 questions, answered separately by each partner
- Your guide, from 100 answers onward
- Hundreds of Conversation Starters included
- 10 Connections per month, shared between both partners, included for your first year
Relationship Mirror Full
$29.99one-time
- The complete 500-question journey for both partners
- Everything in Light, taken considerably deeper
- Hundreds of Conversation Starters included
- 10 Connections per month, shared between both partners, included for your first year
Included with every purchase
- 10 questions free for each partner, before you decide which version to purchase
- One payment, covering both partners
- No subscription is required to own or keep Relationship Mirror
- 10 Connections per month, shared between both partners, included for your first year
- Free rebuilds at every milestone
- More conversations available any month you want them
Giving it to a couple? Gift a Relationship Mirror.
Our promise
It belongs to the relationship. To no one else, ever.
No one can be invited in
No children, no relatives, no guests, no counsellor link. There is no invite button — the software has none.
It is not a report about your partner
It never quotes, summarises or attributes anyone's answers. You will not learn what your partner wrote — you will learn how you two work.
It will never take a side
No scoring, no "you are doing this wrong", no verdict about who is right. Guidance only.
It never invents
If your answers have not touched on something, it says so plainly rather than imagining a pattern that isn't there.
Q&A
Before you begin
Will my partner see what I answered?
No. The guide never reports, quotes, or attributes an answer to either of you — not by name and not as “one of you”. It explains the dynamic between you both.
In simple words — who sees our answers?
You each answer on your own phone. Your partner never sees your answers, and you never see theirs — not while you are answering, not afterwards. The guide reads both sides so it can understand the two of you as one relationship, but when it speaks it only ever explains the dynamic between you. It does not quote either of you, does not say who said what, and does not even say “one of you”. And nobody outside the two of you can be let in — Relationship Mirror has no invite button at all.
Is this couples therapy?
No. It is a guide that explains how relationships work, so you can understand your own patterns. It does not diagnose or treat, and it does not replace a therapist. If what you are going through needs a person, please go and find one.
How much does Relationship Mirror cost?
Light is $19.99 and Full is $29.99, paid once — one payment covering both of you, not one each. Relationship Mirror itself never renews. Your first year includes 10 Connections per month, shared between both partners. After that, optional Connections plans are available if you want to continue conversations with your guide.
Is there a subscription?
Relationship Mirror itself is not a subscription. It is purchased once and belongs to the two of you. Your first year includes 10 Connections per month, shared between both partners. After that, optional Connections plans are available — $5 a month for 50 Connections or $10 a month for 110. You can stop any month, and there is no automatic overage billing.
What is a Connection?
One reply from your guide — one turn of the conversation. Ask a question, get an answer: that is one Connection. Answering questions, reading, and everything the two of you have written are never metered. Only the conversation is.
How many Connections do we get?
Ten Connections per month are included for your first year. The twelve months start when one of you asks the very first question — not when you buy — so you can take months to answer and lose nothing. The ten belong to the relationship, so you share them: one allowance for both of you, not ten each. Unused Connections do not roll over; every month starts fresh at ten. After the first year, optional Connections plans are available if you want to continue.
Do we have to answer at the same time?
No. You each answer whenever you like, on your own phone. The guide gets better as both of you add answers.
What if we are going through something difficult?
Then start with the Conversation Starters about conflict — they are written for exactly that moment, and the guide answers by explaining the pattern rather than deciding who is at fault.
What happens if we break up?
Nothing is published, sent or shared anywhere. It simply stops being used, and each of you can export or delete your own answers.
Can we share it with our family later?
No — and that is deliberate. Relationship Mirror is not a family artifact. If you want something to pass on to your children, that is what Legacy is for.
What if we want the guide updated sooner?
Relationship Mirror Light updates automatically at 100 and 200 answers. Relationship Mirror Full updates automatically at 100, 300 and 500 answers. Between those milestones, you can rebuild on demand for $2.99 — a one-time purchase, never a subscription. Every new answer becomes part of the next guide update.